Families need to openly talk to children about misogyny, consent and sexual violence. Here’s how to start

Keep the conversation open and don’t instruct
While parents should be clear about their values (for example, violence against women is never OK), asking questions and helping young people reach their own conclusions can be more effective than giving instructions. These questions might include:

• what have you heard about (a particular incident)?
• how does it make you feel?
• do you have any questions you’d like to ask?

Tone is important too. Try to keep the conversation calm, non-judgmental and open. Encourage your child to talk to you about concerning experiences and topics.

Don’t play into harmful stereotypes
Avoid reinforcing harmful messages and gender stereotypes such as “boys will be boys” or myths about rape (“women often lie about rape”, “men need sex from women”).

Discomfort is normal
Sex, violence and pornography can be confronting and uncomfortable topics, particularly between parents and children. Recognise the discomfort is normal but don’t let it become an excuse to avoid the topic.

Provide ongoing support
Research suggests feminist approaches from parents (such as those that centre the safety of women and girls) as well as parental support for school education initiatives on healthy relationships and consent help support violence prevention work.

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